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Can you mend a broken heart?!?

Tuesday, January 16, 2007

 

Can anyone help a person with a broken heart? 

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new year…new problems?!?

Have you ever felt that you was being used by your loved one? Do you start to feel that he/she doesn't love you anymore? Does he/she still have time for you??…

If you start to feel any of these…or he is changing on the way he treats you! Better act now or you'll feel sorry in the end…

 

At first, I ignored these signs cause i felt that it was one of my friends joke…I continued our relationship, I pretended the warnings of my friend like I didn't heard her…at first our relationship was perfect! A blast! We were so happy that I easily forgot what my friend said.

A month later, I started to feel that he's starting to change. He starts to lessen his time on calling me, even on his text messages! Knowing that he is working his butt out just to help his family, I just sat quietly at home waiting for his little time to send me a message. That's what was going on everyday, but I suddenly realized that each passing day the lesser he send me a message. One day, he also stopped calling me. Again I didn't told what I was feeling i just kept it in me.

Another month passed, problems kept on coming in our relationship, I just told myself its okay everybody has one. One of the big problems that I encountered in our relationship was…I discovered that I am not the only girl, and to worsten the situation…I was the second girl!!! Of course I was so mad that I would burst out! Being understanding and the caring one…when  he explained to me why there was 2 of us and why I was just the second girl…that he maybe killed when he would dumped the other girl, I don't want him to be killed or to lose him I just shut my mouth out!

Five long months, I am the one who is sacrificing a lot for this relationship to last. I gave him up when he sent me a message after a long silence, "I'm sorry if I wasn't answering your calls and messages. I just want to be used to the fact that one day you are far. It's so hard for me." He used to tell me that in each day he's there for me…that he will wait for me even it is so long. Then one day I would recieve this message! @@@@###t!!! After all what i have done for him! After all the bullies I get from my family?!? Damn, I wasn't born just to care for a man who doesn't even care for me!

If I were you guys! I wouldn't ignore again the warnings! If I just listened to her…

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